The POWER Of Mattering
A (1 hour) parent
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alongside Never Enough by Jennifer Breheny Wallace
“I want my daughter to know she matters," is the new “I want my daughter to be happy."
Feeling like you don't matter is a strong predictor of depression, anxiety, and substance abuse, but on the flip side knowing you’re valuable leads to resilience, self-confidence, and psychological security to thrive.
Join me for a conversation alongside the book Never Enough by Jennifer Breheny Wallace.
Using my lens as an adolescent counselor, I pulled out the important parts so you can learn about topics you know are impactful, but maybe don't have the time to dig deep into yourself.
we're covering:
"In the ever more competitive race to secure the best possible future, today’s students face unprecedented pressure to succeed. They jam-pack their schedules with AP classes, fill every waking hour with resume-padding activities, and even sabotage relationships with friends to “get ahead.”
Yet this drive to optimize performance has only resulted in skyrocketing rates of anxiety, depression, and even self-harm in America’s highest-achieving schools.
Through deep research and interviews with today’s leading child psychologists, Wallace shows what kids need from the adults in the room is not more pressure, but to feel like they matter, and have intrinsic self-worth not contingent upon external achievements.
In an ironic twist, kids who receive consistent feedback that they matter no matter what are more likely to have the resilience, self-confidence, and psychological security to thrive." - Jennifer Breheny Wallace
learn about:
How a sense of Mattering impacts Teen mental health
What parents can do to nurture mattering in kids so that they have more resilience and happiness.
How your Child's Mattering rests on your own mattering
Moms model mattering! This becomes especially important when parenting teens.
solving for mattering, not happiness
How to use mattering as the framework to help when things aren't going smoothly for kids.
Why young people are more vulnerable than past generations
and what you can do about it!
competition is harder on girls
Girls struggle with the social impact of competition and how to normalize healthy reliance.
for you if:
You live in a town that's competitive academically… and college prep starts early
If you haven't started a sport in elementary school - it's difficult or “too late” to start during middle/high school
If you'd describe your daughter as a perfectionist or that she feels a lot of pressure
You feel what your kids feel - you're an empathic parent
You want to support your t(w)een's mental health
faq
Do i need to read the book to attend?
Nope! The chat is based on what I think is most helpful from the book. Bring yourself, an open mind, and any questions you might have on the topic!
what age range is this for?
I know it's cliche to say, but any! This information is important no matter what grade your daughter is in and you’ll be able to apply the teachings at any stage!
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from the chat
kind words from clients
"Your workshop yesterday was amazing. You have such an incredible presence and you broke down the information so nicely and authentically with no judgement. It was awesome!"
JH, parent
"Maggie is EVERYTHING you want someone who holds your kid’s heart, to be."
CRK, parent
"Maggie is knowledgeable and caring and has so many strategies to share. Group Mentorship for Moms was so helpful for me and my own anxieties. It has definitely helped me to understand what my daughter may be going through and how to help her."
RW, parent
“Maggie always makes me feel normal, supported and offers great suggestions and recommendations to help deal with a teenage girl going through many changes in life.”
JJ- parent
meet the mentor
Maggie DiPasquale
Maggie DiPasquale is a graduate of Boston College and holds a Master’s in Clinical Psychology and Education from Columbia University. She is the author of From Stressed Out to Zenned Out and her work has been featured on Boston’s 103.3 Amp Radio, Teen Vogue, and Yoga Journal.
As a wellness coach, consultant, and resource, Maggie has worked with students and organizations across the country, empowering hundreds of girls to lead happy, healthy lives!